THE FESTIVAL OF KWANZAA BEGINS TODAY...

During the Season(s) of Giving we go on each day anticipating the holiday we celebrate and don't realize all of the celebrations and traditions in each culture that takes place here in the United States alone. Even Christmas is celebrated differently if following the Western Calendar, the Eastern Calendar, the Liturgical Calendar and any other calendar that wasn't mentioned and can become so overwhelming at times. But now as we begin the celebration of The Twelve Days of Christmas another celebration that takes place here in the United States and compared to all other centuries old celebrations - this celebration is new to our standards and has been in existence for only 43 years. . .the Festival of Kwanzaa - Learn. Understand. Only then will we be able to live side by side in PEACE!

The Festival of Kwanzaa

(the information in this writing was taken from the website www.holidays.net/kwanzaa.htm)

Kwanzaa is a 7 day festival celebrating the African American people, their culture and their history. It is a time of celebration, community gathering, and reflection. It is a time of endings and beginnings. Kwanzaa begins on December 26th, the day after Christmas, and continues until New Years Day, January 1st.

What most don’t understand is that the holiday of Kwanzaa is 43 years old and was created by Dr. Maulana Karenga in 1966. It was during the period in US history when African Americans were involved in struggles for their most deserved civil rights. This was the period of Martin Luther King, the Civil Rights movement, and Black Power.

Dr. Karenga wanted to create a holiday that would bring African Americans together in celebration of their black culture which was lost due to their ancestors being enslaved and then because of assimilation into society. He was inspired by the "first fruit" or harvest festivals that were celebrated throughout Africa.

In fact the name he gave to the holiday, "Kwanzaa," comes from the Kiswahili or Swahili phrase for "first fruit" - matunda ya kwanza. Also, most don’t know that Kiswahili, or Swahili, is the largest spoken language on the African continent and thus the language of Kwanzaa. When Dr. Karenga chose the word "kwanza" for the name of his festival he added the extra "a" at the end to give the word greater significance.

Dr. Karenga used these first fruit festivals as his model for Kwanzaa because they shared characteristics which he felt were important. These characteristics were:

1. The people gathered together to celebrate their crops and harvest
2. The people would give thanks to their Creator for a good harvest and life.
3. They would remember and celebrate their ancestors and the past.
4. They allowed the people to recommit themselves to their community.
5. They celebrated their history, culture, Creator, and the promise of the next year.

It was these characteristics that inspired Dr. Karenga when he developed the Nguzo Saba, or Seven Principles, of Kwanzaa. (Nguzo Saba is Kiswahili for "Seven Principles") These principles are unity, self-determination, collective work and responsibility, cooperative economics, purpose, creativity, and faith. These are the foundation of Kwanzaa.

The dates of the celebration, December 26 - January 1, were chosen to correspond to the end of the year celebrations in America. Kwanzaa begins the day after Christmas. It is to bypass the commercial buying period but to take advantage of the seasonal holiday spirit.

The Seven Principles of Kwanzaa

The foundation of Kwanzaa are the Seven Principles, or Nguzo Saba. When Dr. Karenga created the celebration of Kwanzaa he wanted to reflect the best qualities and characteristics of the "first fruit" or harvest festivals that were celebrated throughout Africa. It was these qualities that established the Nguzo Saba, or Seven Principles of Kwanzaa. (Nguzo Saba is Kiswahili for Seven Principles).

The Seven Principles (Nguzo Saba) of Kwanzaa are:

• Umoja (oo-MOH-jah): Unity
Success starts with Unity. Unity of family, community, nation and race.

• Kujichagulia (koo-jee-chah-goo-LEE-ah): Self-Determination
To be responsible for ourselves. To create your own destiny.

• Ujima (oo-JEE-mah): Collective Work and Responsibility
To build and maintain your community together.

To work together to help one another within your community.

• Ujamaa (oo-jah-MAH): Collective Economics
To build, maintain, and support our own stores, establishments, and businesses.

• Nia (NEE-ah): Purpose
To restore African American people to their traditional greatness. To be responsible to Those Who Came Before (our ancestors) and to Those Who Will Follow (our descendants).

• Kuumba (koo-OOM-bah): Creativity
Using creativity and imagination to make your communities better than what you inherited.

• Imani (ee-MAH-nee): Faith
Believing in our people, our families, our educators, our leaders, and

the righteousness of the African American struggle.

Seven Days of Kwanzaa Celebration

Each of the seven days of Kwanzaa represents a different Principle of the Nguzo Saba (Seven Principles). When a new candle is lit each day it represents one of these principles. Each evening a family member is given the honor of lighting the candles; usually to the youngest child , some to the eldest family member. Others might have a different family member lighting the candles each night. The candles are placed in a special candleholder (kinara) and those who light the candles discusses one of the seven principles of Kwanzaa. On the sixth day, which falls on New Years Eve, family and friends get together to enjoy a large feast and to celebrate their history, culture, and the upcoming New Year.

The First Day of Kwanzaa (December 26)

On the first day of Kwanzaa the black candle is lit in the Kinara. The black candle represents the First Principle of Kwanzaa - Umoja (oo-MOH-jah): Unity. The person who lights the candle might make a statement about the first principle and its meaning. Sometimes a passage or poem is read relating to what the principle means and how it relates to their life.

Then the Umoja (Unity Cup) might be filled with fruit juice and shared among those gathered. Each takes a drink and passes to the next. Some families prefer to use a Unity cup for each member, or the cup can just be left in the center of the Kwanzaa table.

After the sharing of the Unity cup the candles are extinguished till the next day.

The Second Day of Kwanzaa (December 27)

On the second day the black candle is again lit, as well as the farthest red candle on the left. This represents the Second Principle of Kwanzaa which is Kujichagulia (koo-jee-chah-goo-LEE-ah): Self-determination. A statement about the Second Principle and its meaning is made. Or possibly a passage or poem is spoken or read which relates to what the principle means and how it relates to their life. The family shares the Unity cup and the candles are extinguished.


The Third Day of Kwanzaa (December 28)

On the third day the black candle is lit, then the farthest left red, and then the farthest right green candle. This represents the Third Principle of Kwanzaa - Ujima (oo-JEE-mah): Collective work and responsibility. The Third Principle is discussed. The family shares the Unity cup and the candles are extinguished.

The Fourth Day of Kwanzaa (December 29)

On the fourth day the black candle is lit, then the farthest left red, the farthest right green. And then the next red candle on the left. This represents the Fourth Principle of Kwanzaa - Ujamaa (oo-jah-MAH): Collective economics. The Fourth Principle is discussed. The family shares the Unity cup and the candles are extinguished.

The Fifth Day of Kwanzaa (December 30)

On the fifth day the black candle is lit, then the farthest left red, the farthest right green, the next red and then the next green candle. This represents the Fifth Principle of Kwanzaa - Nia (NEE-ah): Purpose. The Fifth Principle is discussed. The family shares the Unity cup and the candles are extinguished.

The Sixth Day of Kwanzaa (December 31)

On the sixth day the black candle is lit, then the farthest left red, the farthest right green, the next red, the next green and then the final red candle. This represents the Sixth Principle of Kwanzaa – Kuumba (koo-OOM-bah): Creativity. The sixth day, which occurs on New Years Eve, is a special day. This is the day of the Kwanzaa Karamu or Kwanzaa Feast. In the spirit of celebration many families invite their friends and family to join in the festivities.

On this special day we remember our ancestors when the Unity cup is shared. After everyone has taken a drink the candles are extinguished.

But before the Karamu is over, the eldest member of those present will read the Tamshi La Tutaonana (TAM-shi la Tu-ta-u-NA-na). The Tamshi La Tutaonana was written by Dr. Karenga, the creator of Kwanzaa, as a farewell statement to the feast and the year.

Everyone stands as the elder reads:

Strive for discipline, dedication, and achievement in all you do.

Dare struggle and sacrifice and gain the strength that comes from this.

Build where you are and dare leave a legacy that will last

as long as the sun shines and the water flows.

Practice daily Umoja, Kujichagulia, Ujima, Ujamaa, Nia, Kuumba, and Imani.

May the wisdom of the ancestors always walk with us.

May the year's end meet us laughing, and stronger.

May our children honor us by following our example in love and struggle.

At the end of next year, may we sit together again, in larger numbers, with greater achievement and closer to liberation and a higher level of life.

Then the elder leads the guests in the Harambee (ha-RAM-bee) salute. Each person raises their right fist about as high as their shoulder, then pulls down forcefully until the elbow is next to next to their torso, saying "Harambee!" This is done seven times in unison. This concludes the Karamu celebration.

The Seventh Day of Kwanzaa (January 1)

On the seventh day the black candle is lit, then the farthest left red, the farthest right green, the next red candle, the next green, the final red and then the final green candle. This represents the Seventh Principle of Kwanzaa – imani (ee-MAH-nee): Faith. The Seventh Principle is discussed. The family shares the Unity cup and all seven candles are extinguished. Kwanzaa is over.

The Festival of Kwanzaa, a new celebration in comparison to the centuries old celebrations, celebrates community and unity - faith, self-determination, and creativity all encompassing of what each of our holidays celebrates.

Isn't a wonderful place to live, the United States of America? We can experience it all! When each of us finally throws caution to the wind and instead of tolerating others beliefs, customs and traditions we actually learn and understand them will be the time we will live side by side in PEACE.

HAPPY KWANZAA! Wishing Everyone Peace, Harmony & Tranquility...

CHRISTMAS

Main Entry: Christ·mas
Pronunciation: \ˈkris-məs\
Function: noun
Usage: often attributive
Etymology: Middle English - Christemasse;

from Old English - Cristes mæsse, literally, Christ's mass
Date: before 12th century

The Christmas Story

Long ago, about 2000 years, King Herod ruled Judea (now part of Israel.) God sent Archangel Gabriel to a young women who lived in the northern town of Nazareth. Her name was Mary and she was engaged to marry Joseph.

Archangel Gabriel said to Mary: 'Peace be with you! God has blessed you and is pleased with you.' Mary was frightened. The angel said to her 'Don't be afraid, God has been very kind to you. You will become pregnant by the Holy Spirit and give birth to a baby boy and you will call him Jesus. He will be God's own Son and his kingdom will never end.' Mary was very afraid but she trusted God. 'Let it happen as God chooses.' She replied to the angel. Gabriel also told Mary that her cousin, Elizabeth who everyone thought was too old to have children, would have a baby boy whom God had chosen to prepare the way for Jesus.

Mary visited her cousin Elizabeth and her husband Zechariah. Elizabeth was very happy to see her. She knew that Mary had been chosen by God to be the mother of his Son. An angel had already told Zechariah that Elizabeth's baby would prepare people to welcome Jesus. He was to be called John. Mary stayed with Elizabeth about three months and then returned home to Nazareth.

Joseph, learning that Mary was with child was deciding not marry her; however, while Joseph slept an angel appeared in a dream and said: 'Don't be afraid to have Mary as your wife.' The angel explained that Mary had been chosen by God to be the mother of his Son and told Joseph that the baby would be named Jesus which means 'Savior' because he would save people. Joseph accepted Mary as his wife.

At this time, where Mary and Joseph lived, it was part of the Roman Empire. The Roman Emperor Augustus wanted the names of the people in the empire, to make sure they paid their taxes. He ordered everyone to return to the town where their families originally came from, and enter their names in a census. Since Joseph’s family was from Bethlehem, he and Mary had to return to Bethlehem, traveling about 70 miles from Nazareth. Mary's baby was due to be born soon, so they traveled by donkey, they being fortunate ones to be able to.

Upon arriving in Bethlehem they had problems finding somewhere to stay because many people had come to register their names in the census. Every house was full and every bed was taken in all of the inns. The only shelter found was a stable or cave with the animals. In this poor place Mary gave birth to Jesus, the Son of God. In those days it was the custom to wrap newborn babies tightly in a long cloth called 'swaddling clothes.' Jesus' bed was the manger that the animals ate their hay from.

In the hills and fields outside Bethlehem, shepherds looked after their sheep through the long night. As the new day began, suddenly an angel appeared before them and the glory of God shone around them. The shepherds being frightened heard the angel say, 'Don't be afraid. I have good news for you and everyone. Today in Bethlehem a Savior was born. You will find the baby lying in a manger.' Many more angels appeared, lighting up the sky. The shepherds heard them praising God singing: 'Glory to God in highest, and peace to everyone on earth.' The shepherds went to Bethlehem and found Mary and Joseph. The baby Jesus was lying in a manger as they had been told. When they saw him, they told everyone what the angel had said and everyone who heard the story were astonished. Then the shepherds returned to their sheep, praising God for sending his Son to be their Savior.

When Jesus was born, a brand new bright star appeared in sky. The Wise Men in faraway countries who navigated their travels by studying the stars saw the star which confirmed what they learned - a new star would appear when a great king was born. They set out to find the new king and bring him gifts.

Different Schools of Thought: There are three different schools of thought about the birth of Jesus. Was Jesus really born on December 25th or was he born March 25th, in the Spring (Spring Solstice is March 21st); or was the December 25th date in line with the Roman pagan tradition of celebrating the New Year or Re-birth – the Winter Solstice?

Accordingly, there is a celebration on March 25th called the Annunciation - the announcement by Angel Gabriel to Mary that she was with child and she was to give birth to the Savior. At this time, it is believed that conception had taken place known as the “Virginal Conception.” This should not be confused with the “Immaculate Conception.” Even though Mary’s parents conceived her in the conventional manner, Mary’s soul was immaculate, so pure and without original sin.

Today, many believe that life begins in the womb at the time of conception and that the celebration of birth is at that time, hence Jesus was born on March 25th, the Spring. But if you believe that birth is at the time the child is physically removed from the womb, then Jesus was born nine months later on December 25th. And we must not forget the Roman pagan celebration of the Winter solstice or the New Year/re-birth. Interesting? Wouldn't you say so?

Miracles: Even though there is a controversy as to the December 25th date, it doesn’t matter. The meaning behind it is what is important - giving of oneself, caring about others, loving not hating, understanding and having tolerance towards other’s beliefs, living in peace and harmoniously with each other. Miracles do happen, no matter how small or how big every day of our lives.

Each of us has experienced miracles throughout our lives. One I can speak of just happened recently.

A young service man was trying to get home for Christmas. Where he was stationed the weather was perfect; however, where he was to arrive the weather was dangerous, (the winter storm Albert was ravaging the east coast and northeast.) When he arrived at the airport in North Carolina to switch planes, he found his flight cancelled. He was upset to say the least. The flight crew that was to fly his plane was stranded in Philadelphia for two days because of the storm. He was trying for hours to find what can be done, even thought of renting a car to drive home – in the storm. However, as he was waiting contemplating on what to do, a woman had come up to him and had given him a gift card thanking him for his service to our country and for what he is doing. He found a woman who was on his flight to North Carolina standing by a reservation desk. They spoke. It was a small miracle - a flight was available for them to come directly to Connecticut instead of their destination to White Plains. The small miracles continued - the woman had him move ahead of her. And before he knew it, word had spread through the line, moving him forward to the front so he was the first to board the plane! When he boarded the plane, he found a fellow serviceman and they sat together. The flight attendant had come to them and asked them to follow her. She placed them in First Class! He arrived around 2:00 a.m., on the 21st of December.

It is a story of how miracles that are so small we don’t realize that they even happened. We think we went with the flow or how nice those people are to us. But isn’t that what the Christmas Season is all about? Heck, the Season’s of Giving is all about; not the brightly wrapped gifts under the tree. It's about the gifts we give out of the goodness of our hearts – the woman gave the service man a gift card thanking him for his service – the woman let him ahead of her in line – word spreading in the line and each person allowed him to go ahead and finally, the flight attendant sitting him in first class. The true miracle in this story was the flight that became available for him to come home directly to Connecticut.

May everyone realize the small miracles, and large ones too, each and everyday because if you do, you will experience Christmas and the Season’s of Giving every moment of every day!

MERRY CHRISTMAS!!! PEACE and BLESSINGS to everyone during the most wonderful time of the year!

LET EVERYONE KNOW...

...DUE TO THE INCLEMENT WEATHER

OVER THE WEEKEND

DO COME AND VISIT!!

YOU WILL FIND THAT PARTICULAR GIFT FOR

YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER MAKING HIM/HER VERY HAPPY!!

MERRY CHRISTMAS!!

DO VISIT US. . .

Chanukah Tradition

Chanukah will begin at sunset on Friday, December 11th and will continue until Saturday, December 19th.

As we approach this wondrous holiday, we have knowledge of how the miracle of the oil in the flask that was enough to burn for one day actually burned for eight days. We also know that the lighting of a candle each night for eight days is in homage, commemorating the eight day miracle and each night gifts are exchanged between family and friends as well.

But there is more to this history than we know. It actually was more of survival over the ever present dangers during the time defining the miraculous event.

First we must learn that Chanukah in Hebrew means "dedication."

The holiday commemorates the re-dedication of the Holy Temple in Jerusalem after the Jews' 165 BCE victory over the Hellenist Syrians. History states that Antiochus, the Greek King of Syria had outlawed Jewish rituals, ordering them to worship Greek gods.

In 168 BCE, the Syrians had taken control over the Holy Temple and transformed it, dedicating it to the Greek god, Zeus. And as in any civil action as this, there were some who were afraid of the soldiers and abided by what was being done, but yet there were those who were angered that their right to worship who they knew as their G-d was being manipulated as well as being bullied into worshipping a pagan god or an idol, had decided to fight back.

It all began in a village not from Jerusalem known as Modiin. A Greek officer and his soldiers had assembled the villagers 'asking' them to bow to an idol or false god and eat the flesh of a pig, knowing it was against their beliefs. Knowing the demeaning acts were forbidden by Jewish Law, he asked the high priest Mattathias to take part in the ceremony. Mattathias had refused. Because of his refusal another villager stepped forward to comply, hoping to avoid any violence he knew would take place.

Mattathias had become outraged by what was taking place, had drawn his sword killing the man and then killed the Greek officer. This act had started the events to unravel. Mattathias, his five sons and the villagers followed through by killing the remaining soldiers. He then went into hiding in the nearby mountains. Other Jews who had agreed with Mattathias' reasoning joined him and his family. They attacked Greek soldiers whenever possible.

As this took place the Holy Temple had become vandalized. Judah Maccabee and his soldiers had arrived at the Holy Temple and were saddened by the events that had taken place and to see the destruction and items that were missing or broken, which included the golden menorah. They knew they had to restore the Holy Temple as best as they could. So they cleaned and repaired it and decided that a dedication ceremony should be done.

They had wanted to light the menorah as part of the celebration and looked for the oil. Unfortunately, they were only able to find one small flask of oil that would last only one day. But to their amazement, the oil burned miraculously for eight days, long enough for them to obtain more oil to keep the menorah lit.

That celebration is done today. Chanukah or "dedication" is celebrated for eight days, lighting a candle each night for the eight days in homage, commemorating the eight day miracle. Each night gifts are exchanged between family and friends representing the gift of giving the burning "oil" had done for the eight days that were needed to obtain more pure oil to keep the flames burning.

A wonderful event in history during a time of religious oppression and conformity. But many of us do not understand the Jewish laws and traditions. And to have a better understanding is to learn.

The Menorah: In Israel the Chanukah menorah is called the Hanukiyah. They come in all shapes and sizes. The only requirement is that the flames are separated enough so that the not look too big and resemble a pagan bonfire. Also, if one is not made of clay as the original, then many of the menorah(s) that are purchased today can only be used once and cannot be continually used throughout the eight day holiday.

Ancient menorahs were made of clay, consisting of small pearl shaped vessels, each with its own wick, which were arranged side by side. Today's menorah, which stands on a base with branches sprouting out, resembles the Holy Temple's menorah and began to appear towards the end of the Middle Ages.


The Chanukah Dreidel: In Israel the dreidel is called "sivivon." The Yiddish term "dreidel" is derived from the German word "drehen" which means "turn." The dreidel game was popular during the rule of Antiochus before the Maccabees' revolt. It was a time when soldiers executed any Jews who were caught practicing their religion. When pious Jews met to study the Tora, they had the top ready just in case they heard the soldiers coming. If they saw the soldiers they would hide the scriptures and pretend they were playing with the dreidel.


Sugar Plums and Other Delights: Since the main theme in Chanukah is the use of "oil." In cooking the dishes for the holiday, "vegetable oil" is mainly used. The Maccabees soldiers had eaten latkes made of cheese, vegetables or fruits which were brought to them on the battle fields. They didn't eat potato latkes because potatoes were not available until the 16th century. From then on, latkes were made of potato mixed with eggs, onions, and flour and then fried in vegetable oil. The potato pancake is still made today. The texture is crispy on the outside and tender within and is served with applesauce and sour cream as sides.

Another delight is the Sufganiyot or the Chanukah Jelly Doughnut. It is a jelly doughnut without the hole. Remembering the "oil" theme, when the doughnuts are made they are dropped into the hot oil with no shape. A different shape is formed with each doughnut as it cooks, creating funny, odd shapes and then are covered in sugar or cinnamon and are sold on stands on the streets in Israel a month before the Chanukah celebration begins.

Now we know how a miracle so small can represent something absolutely monumental. A miracle that changed the world at the time. A battle was won, not just from a physical overthrow of place and people but from a spiritual and religious oppression. The burning of the oil for the eight days showed how faith and belief truly can make a difference!

Enjoy this celebration of the small miracle! for its effect has an impact on all of us as it continues to reverberate down in history whether we realize or not.

Let us, during this time, remember our own small miracles that had changed our lives and the lives of others. Because, again, as we get in our habitual groove we don't realize how the outcome of such miracles, the 'giving', has had an impact at that one moment in time. Look back, see the changes that had taken place, for at times we must take a few steps back in order to take one or two steps forward.

May Peace be bestowed on everyone not just during the Season(s) of Giving but throughout the years to come!

HAPPY CHANUKAH!!!!

(Some information for this piece was obtained from http://www.history.com/content/hanukkah)

Don't We All Have Sugar Plums Dancing In Our Heads During The Seasons of Giving?

SoBoBo knows:

“…As we lay asleep all snug in our beds,

We have visions of sugar plums

dancing in our heads…”

No matter what race, religion or ethnicity we are, at the times our traditions and beliefs are being celebrated during the Seasons of Giving we all have visions of what we hope to receive as gifts. It doesn’t matter how old we are…a sugar plum for a couple could mean a diamond ring for their engagement…a sugar plum for Dad could be the jig saw he has been eyeing at the hardware store…a sugar plum a child is wishing for is the new bicycle without training wheels…or even a sugar plum for someone could actually be a sugar plum to enjoy the sweetness of the holiday season…

So, when we think of how to satisfy others’ sugar plum cravings during this holiday season make sure to stop at SoBoBo Art Gallery where unique meets sublime and choose from the array of art created by local artists and artisans. You will find paintings by Matt Roe, Frieda Howling, Cindy Rifkin, Joan Fresh; Mixed media collages by Jan McLean and Allan Dudek; Drawings by Caitlin TurnerWoods and Carla Kern; Jewelry by Kira Nelson and Dawn Lombard, Sam Rawls and Lara Sendich, Ruth Starcher and Keelin Britt, Barbara Brill and Marcie Wright, Analiese and Shelly Saber; Mary Anne Lagana hand sews jackets, Nancy Boccuzzi hand knits shawls, sweaters and scarves, Patricia Shea hand makes felted hats and handbags and Patricia Burling hand weaves rugs and thrawls (throws that can be used as shawls), Lisa and Louis Strauss hand tools leather accessories made from Tilapia skins; Sculptures by Michael Brotschul and Julia Ambrose, Jon Westberg, Marian Doherty and Kayla Gibbons. Prints by Luke Lynch, Genna Riggi and Frieda Howling and there is so much more!

Your are always welcome at SoBoBo!

The energy is alive at SoBobo! Creating excitement & joy,

it is awaiting to be shared with you!

Come, and experience the anticipation of

the Seasons of Giving for yourself!

SoBoBo’s hours are Thursdays and Fridays from 5:30 pm to 9:30 pm and Saturdays and Sundays from Noon to 7:00 pm. Monday through Wednesday is by appointment only (call 203-906-8945 to make an appointment.) Visit us at 17 Broadway – Walnut Beach, Milford, CT.

SHOP AT HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS!

Always Wishing Everyone the Best of Everything!

Let's Talk Turkey

Dear Readers,

This posting is in a different style so I may personally wish everyone the most Blessed Thanksgiving! I thank all of you for being a part of SoBoBo’s success. Finding the right words is at times difficult to let others know how we feel, and this is one of those times. It is truly an honor to receive each of you as you enter the door of SoBoBo. An honor to work with all artists and artisans who have made SoBoBo a lively, ecclectic place where unique truly meets sublime and, it goes without saying, an honor to speak with each guest about the art work and their creators. An honor to bring to everyone a chance to experience art to its fullest.

I am preparing the Gallery for a new and exciting exhibit for the Holiday Season(s). We will be open the day after Thanksgiving from 2:00 pm until 9:30 pm. As I write this announcement of the hours, I see how we can easily get into a habitual groove of going on with our lives forgetting the true meaning of each holiday celebration that should be practiced at all times.

We all know of how the Native Americans had given the gift of acceptance to the Pilgrims so that they may survive the harshness of the New England winters in the 1600’s. But what most don’t know is the true meaning of this act that was made. The “give-away” – what the Native Americans so generously sacrificed for “strangers” so that the whole of all people’s needs were met, they had included the new people in the whole!

As we approach Thursday, November 26th, we rush around buying tablecloths, napkins, dishes, glasses, utensils to eat with and we mustn’t forget the food, especially, Turkey– all of it to make our place ready for our families and friends to sit at the table eating together, perhaps for some, the only day of the year, Thanksgiving.

In each of our own cultures we have traditions that we practice every year. One may be asking each person at the table to state what they are thankful for ‘GIVING THANKS’(as most of us were taught Thanksgiving meant.) Of course all of us are thankful for what we have received, i.e., the new job we attained, the house we live in, the food on the table.

So in thinking of what we are thankful for, perhaps we should give THANKS for the GIVING of what we have. We are always thankful for what we have received, but are we ever thankful for the sacrifice it took to receive the giving or “give-away?” For instance: Are we thankful for the giving or offering of the job we attained – we usually state, “I got the job” not thinking what goes on behind the scenes (maybe someone lost their job). What about the mortgage to buy the house, or Turkey who gives its life for our celebration.

A “give-away” is better explained by Jamie Sams and David Carson authors of “Medicine Cards” which explains a culmination of several Native American tribal traditions and beliefs.

“Simply stated, it is (the give-away) the deep and abiding recognition of the sacrifices of both self and others.” “Spectators (or outsiders looking in) unfamiliar with the cultural phenomenon of the potlatch or give-away ceremony are often mystified by it. A tribal member may gladly give away all he or she owns, and do without in order to help the People. In present-day urban life, we are taught to acquire and get ahead. The person with the most toys wins the game. In some cultures, no one can win the game unless the whole of the People’s needs are met. A person who claims more than his or her share is looked upon as selfish or crazy or both. The poor, the aged, and the feeble have honor. The person who gives away the most and carries the burdens of the People is one of the most respected.”

This type of “medicine” is called Turkey Medicine. Many saints and mystics carry this medicine with them for it rests in true ego, enlightenment. It is a known fact that those who carry this with them have many virtues, they have transcended, they become advocates – aspiring to help those in need of help. (summarization - Medicine Cards, page 161) “Help and sustenance are given by Turkey out of the realization that all life is sacred.” (Medicine Cards; page 161) It is also an acknowledgement of “do unto others as you would have them do unto you”. A memorable statement by President John F. Kennedy. “Doing unto others and feeding the people is the message of all true spiritual systems.” (Medicine Cards pg. 161-162)

So when you see Turkey walking across the street, or eating its dinner along the roadside, or sitting on your table prepared for Thanksgiving Dinner - remember you are about to receive a gift or are being given a gift. It could be represented spiritually, materially, or even intellectually. “No matter the size of the gift, we should never consider it to be insignificant. Some gifts we consider so simple as a sunrise/sunset, but yet what happens with Earth as a whole to attain this amazing sight truly isn’t as simple as you would think. It could also mean ”… you just won the lottery, “ or “…you may feel the “SPIRIT OF GIVING” growing within you, and wanting you to share with others!” (Medicine Cards pg. 162)

“You must remember NEVER GIVE TO RECEIVE. It is manipulation.” (Medicine Cards pg. 162) Giving should be without regret. It should be given with goodness “…and a joyful heart, or the “give-away” has lost its true meaning.” (summarized Medicine Cards pg. 162)
So as the Native Americans gave the gift of acceptance and the “give-away” so that the Pilgrims may have sustenance and live, remember “…in Turkey’s death we have our life…Help and sustenance are given by Turkey out of the realization that ALL LIFE IS SACRED.” (Medicine Cards; page 161) This means no matter what race, ethnicity, creed or gender we as humans are as well as, all creatures and plant life, great and small that live.

The Thanksgiving tradition of having Turkey for dinner has more meaning now than we thought. It wasn’t because of the fact it was the only animal around to kill and eat during the 1600’s as we were taught. Knowing of the Native Americans’ “give-away” of giving of their own harvest to help the strangers endure the savage winters, acceptance, and having THANKS for Turkey GIVING of him or herself now makes sense as to the reason for Turkey dinners on this holiday, because it seems we have “accepted” the Native Americans’ belief of Turkey medicine through their teaching, without realizing it! As we greet each family member, friends, co-workers, even the strangers we pass on the street, remember to be thankful for the sacrifices all have given to make our lives better. In one word - THANKSGIVING.

HAVE A BLESSED THANKSGIVING. . .and realize the anticipation of the “Spirit of Giving!” that is deeply seeded in each of us. It is time to let it come to the forefront, and don’t hold back for fear of embarassment because satisfaction will be felt, satisfying our egos, bringing us a bit closer to living in harmony.

PEACE!

Join Us for the Last Art Stroll of 2009 on Thursday, November 19th

"Frosted Firs"

by Marti Reed

Come join us as we celebrate "Indian Summer" and "Winter" during our last Art Stroll for 2009!

Firehouse Gallery, 81 Naugatuck Avenue, Walnut Beach - Milford, CT, will be hosting a reception for it's year-end exhibit with the celebration of the "Winter" season on Thursday, November 19th from 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm. The exhibit will be judged by Derek Leka, a university professor at Southern and University of Bridgeport as well as teaching at Silvermine Guild Arts Center.

As you view each piece of art, become a part of it. Feel the strokes of the paint brush or pencil as if the artist was right there creating. Enjoy the beauty of the color, the light and dark, the composition. Then, and only then, would it be a good time to choose your favorite piece! You become part of the judging process yourself by choosing for the People's Choice Award.

Meander across "the Avenue" to Urban Antique Radio and Vintage Hi-Fi and check out Mike Urban's collection of past communications. Ask him questions about repairs, restoration and the like and he will be more than happy to answer them!

You must stop by the Walnut Beach Cafe and see what Wil has cook'in! Be sure to try the new Eggnog Latte or Cappuccino. Or better yet - try the seasonal Mulled Cider beverage. Mmmm!Delicious!

Stroll around the corner to Lazy Lobster and they may have lobster bisque available! Or perhaps start shopping for the Holidays at A Fine Affair, Collected Stories and SoBoBo Art Gallery! What a great relief to have some of your gifts crossed off your lists.

"Body Armor" (homage to Navajo Tribe) - by Michael Brotschul

At SoBoBo Art Gallery absorb the vibrancy of "Indian Summer!" Soak up the colors and breathe in the scent of Fall. Works of more than 50 artists on display are available for purchase. We all know about harvesting for the upcoming winter season takes place each year around this time as well as the preparation for the Holiday Season, so, with that in mind --- don't forget to place your order for one of your desserts for the Holidays! Because even though Walnut Beach Creamery is closed for the season orders are being taken for ice cream and ice cream pies. Your order can be easily placed at SoBoBo! You must make sure to ask to try the flavors of Pumpkin, Peppermint, Ginger and more because samples are available to taste at SoBoBo! If you already have a favorite and it is not listed with the flavors that are available, don't be shy because you can order that one too! Just a reminder, SoBoBo is opened until 9:30 pm so make sure to stop by and perhaps we will enjoy a lively conversation!

SoBoBo will be holding an Open House from Thursday the 19th until Sunday the 22nd during Gallery hours. Come and join us! You can even purchase that special gift for someone you know.

See you on the 19th!

Indian Summer Explodes With Vibrance. . .

As October ends we await two weeks of warm weather with anticipation so that the crops can be harvested to prepare for winter. It is called "Indian Summer." This event has been taking place for hundreds of years, and to think how we have taken it for granted!

Visit SoBoBo! View the new exhibit that is vibrant in color and creates the excitement and anticipation as we await Indian Summer's arrival. Let's celebrate our thanks by giving a gift that can last forever. . .acceptance.

Before we had refrigerators and freezers the harvested foods would be "canned" in jars, pickled, and/or dried - not freeze dried - dried by hanging them in the attic where heat rose from below drying out the foods. A root cellar was used to keep certain foods from drying out and going bad, perhaps the true first refrigerator since a root cellar is underground and is always cold.

The Native Americans who were here first in North America knew of this event and without hesitation would automatically harvest their crops and prepare them for the winter months so that they will be able to survive over the winter bearing the frigid weather.

When the Pilgrims had landed in New England for the first time, they had no idea what they were about to experience. Meeting the Native Americans was truly a blessing for they had taught the Pilgrims their ways of growing and harvesting of their crops and how to prepare them for the bitter winters.

It is said that at the end of the Harvest, a gathering would take place giving thanks for the blessing that was bestowed on them. The blessing of the Native American friends who taught the new people the ways to live in the new land. The blessing that the survivors of the voyage from England had landed safely on the new soil. The blessing of the Harvest for all to share in preparing for the bitter winter ahead.

Thanksgiving was born in remembrance of this wonderful event! And "the White Man" had given the name "Indian Summer" to give distinction in the change of weather and in the understanding of a wondrous event each year. Isn't it wondrous how Mother Nature works?! A two week thaw in the winter also takes place which allows the snow and ice on the mountains to melt, flowing towards the lakes, reservoirs, rivers, ponds - this in turn gives water that is needed for all living things.

As anticipation builds during the Season(s) of Giving we think about visiting relatives, preparing and cooking Thanksgiving dinner, eating pumpkin pie, having the time off from work and/or school and yes of course - the first day of Holiday shopping!

But yet, some of us will be giving thanks that our fathers, brothers, sisters, mothers, cousins, uncles and aunts have come home from the Iraq War or from Afghanistan ALIVE. Some of us will be celebrating the continuance of life because of being healed from a sickness, or have finally gone into remission. Some of us will be hopelessly jubilant as we learn of being pregnant, getting engaged or married. Some of us will be thankful for the job we have finally attained after being unemployed, no matter how menial it is. Some of us will be thankful that unemployment hasn't run out and we still have food on our tables and a roof over our heads.

No matter how slight or overwhelming our reasons for being thankful are they should always be recognized as achievements and gratitude should always be humbly made.

We should, however, remember the Native Americans who actually had given the gift of life to the Pilgrims through teaching, sharing and helping. The Native Americans should not be shunned for being different because they after all, have made a difference in our lives. Perhaps we should be humbled by their first gesture of friendship knowing it was a gesture of acceptance, to live in harmony with the new strangers who had entered their world.

We need to recognize that Thanksgiving is truly more than just our own little worlds we live in. It is definitely within the "grander scheme of things" whether we want to realize it or not. So pass on the anticipation and the excitement of the upcoming Holiday by giving it forward to those near and dear to you and even those you pass along the way....for one never knows when a gesture of acceptance just might save a life. . .

Enjoy the warmth of Indian Summer as we prepare for the winter months and anticipate the excitement of Thanksgiving! Many Blessings!!

The "Final Destination" On Halloween Night Is. . .

- BE SAFE! -

- BE AWARE! - - BE ALERT! -

FROM WALNUT BEACH COMMUNITY

Trick 'O' Treaters of All Ages - BEWARE!! Walnut Beach Witch will be arriving at Walnut Beach in Milford, CT on Saturday, October 31st! There will be face painting, special treats, hot cider, a seance (not for children), free ice cream and more! Everyone can join in – parents and children of all ages. The only requirement to participate is that you must wear a costume to help chase the ghoulies and goblins and long leggedy beasties, and things that go bump in the night away from Walnut Beach!

Meet at Walnut Beach Creamery for 5:00 pm. You will see Jammie the Clown sitting in the entry way of SoBoBo Art Gallery and Walnut Beach Creamery waiting to paint the faces of each guest; Collected Stories will be having a seance (not for children); Ortiz Upholstery has a surprise waiting as does Lazy Lobster, A Fine Affair, Walnut Beach Cafe, Urban Antique Radio and Vintage Hi-Fi, Firehouse Gallery, and Walnut Beach Creamery.

Walnut Beach Witch will be arriving promptly at 6:00 pm at Walnut Beach Creamery to escort the costumed crowd as they chant and pray to scare the ghouls and goblins away! Leading the way to Ortiz Upholstery, Lazy Lobster, A Fine Affair, Walnut Beach Café, Urban Antique Radio and Vintage Hi-Fi, Firehouse Gallery. The “Final Destination” will be Walnut Beach Creamery where FREE ICE CREAM is given to those who participate! And then everyone can go on their merry way continuing the tradition of Trick 'O' Treating!

As Walnut Beach Witch would cackle…“See you there my pretty ...”

Walnut Beach Community and Walnut Beach Witch asks,

Please, as you Trick 'O' Treat make sure to

- BE SAFE! - - BE AWARE! -

- BE ALERT! -

Anticipation Abounds During the Month of October. . .

Boo! Who? From ghoulies and ghosties and long-leggedy beasties, and things that go bump in the night -- at SoBoBo Black Magic Abounds! Spells and chants are cast as the mystifying art and scary sculptures lurk about celebrating Halloween. Over 40 artists are now featured. Textures galore reverberate! A place so intriguing, you wonder why you are lured back again and again. Unless of course it’s the spell Walnut Beach Witch has cast! After all she is arriving promptly at 6:00 pm on October 31st!

Stroll through SoBoBo Art Gallery, be taken by surprise as sculptures capture your attention- "I Call Him Spike" or "Spike" for short, copper/bone sculpture by Michael Brotschul creates a "disturbia" within, as his "Body Armor" sculpture resembling George Washington Irving's "The Headless Horseman" frightens you.

"I Call Him Spike"

or "Spike" for short

Copper/Bone Sculpture

Michael Brotschul

"Larry," mixed media sculpture by Luke Lynch reaches out to touch you, "Deliver Us", mixed media collage by Doll Barnes, scares you into believing. Charlie Bell’s "On the Edge of Lethe", oil painting, brings to mind the edge of evil as does Catherine Fiehn’s photograph “Souless“ brings evil to life.

"Prom Date"

Mixed Media

Allan Dudek

Allan Dudek’s "Prom Date", mixed media collage, can only bring back memories of a Halloween date gone bad. . .and

is enveloped by

Andrew Hungaski’s “Bad Suit."

Michael Brotschul’s

“Flaming Skull” shows how the date finally ended.

"Bad Suit"

Oils

Andrew Hungaski

“Claws” traditional photography by Don Garbera, brings back the memories of storytelling by our older siblings with the flashlight highlighting their faces in the darkened room as they begin telling about “the Claw”… Frieda Howling’s, "Tree of Life" leaves a haunting.

Cynthia Rifkin’s “Watchers” builds the paranoia for a scary night as “Imagine” a monoprint by Luke Lynch makes one wonder “Maybe it can really happen."

"Watchers"
Acrylics

Cynthia Rifkin

In the ‘tween of it all - the scares and howls - are wonderful art works by Marian Doherty, “Karma…” and “Erupt” as the spacial pieces seek other dimensions. Jon Westberg’s tables add to the sculptures creating the dimensions as you look at them. Matt Roe’s "Misty Mountain Hop," shows the mystifying mountains echoing many calls. Hand woven rugs and ‘thrawls’ by Patricia Burling keeps us warm in the coming cool weather. Nancy Boccuzzi’s hand knitted scarves and shawls keeps us warm as we go to work or school. Patricia Shea’s felted hats keeps the heat in and Mary Anne Lagana’s lined, vintage cloth jackets can dress up a pair of slacks in a heart beat for work and even a long skirt for the upcoming holidays!

Decorating the house for Halloween can add flavor to the candy gifts that are being given to the “Trick o’Treaters!” You must come and visit to experience it! See you there my deary!

Animal - Vegetable - Mineral: Join Us On Thursday, October 15th

A wonderful way to relax and actually have fun on Thursday, October 15th, is to enjoy an exciting evening starting at 6:00 pm at Firehouse Gallery at 81 Naugatuck Avenue to view the exhibit - Animal - Vegetable - Mineral, a juried show and artwork is available for purchase.

Meander to Urban Antique Radio and Vintage Hi-Fi at 58 Naugatuck Avenue where yesteryear is still part of today! See if Walnut Beach Cafe has music playing. A Fine Affair will always have that kitchen gadget that we can't seem to find. If you need to schedule a catered function for the upcoming Holiday parties, whether for employees or open houses you must stop by A Fine Affair and Lazy Lobster - both can accomodate!

Collected Stories at 16 Broadway just may have the book you have been looking for Uncle Joe. SoBoBo Art Gallery across the street has many unique art pieces that can fit any gift idea. You can find for Aunt May that necklace with the unusual design that suits her perfectly! Or that rug you needed because you are changing your decor for the Holidays, or that painting that reminds you of someone or some place you've been before. Don't forget Walnut Beach Creamery where you can get that particular flavor of ice cream you crave to take home with you. You must put in your Holiday Order for that special, unique dessert!

As seasons change and the season(s) of giving has begun the stress level also begins... Now you can cross off those gifts off of your gift lists you have for everyone - and yes, the dessert, too off of your list for your party!

One must agree it is a wonderful way to relax and actually have fun and enjoy - what could be a chore - "Shopping at Home for the Holidays!

Come join us! Enjoy the wonderful feeling of anticipation as you view each piece of art by imagining which one would be the perfect gift for whomever you wish to give. Anticipation....It's making you wait, it's keeping you guessing.... ENJOY the evening!

MILFORD IS LOCAL PROUD

Milford is Local Proud.

Local Proud is a buy-local campaign designed to support locally owned and independent businesses in Milford. Spearheaded by Susan Ashelford who owns Given to Gauche and is a commissioner on the Economic Development Commission, the program’s goal is to shift 10% of the purchases made at non-independent stores to locally owned and operated businesses.

The shift in dollars will have a hugely positive effect for all of Milford. According to studies, including a 2008 study by the Institute for Local Self Reliance, locally owned businesses recycle about 45% of their revenue back into the local economy.

Commissioner Ashelford adds that “results from other communities demonstrate that not only do dollars spent locally stay local, but local businesses contribute more to local non-profits and participate more in community life; and local independents demand less energy resources and public infrastructure.”

Milford’s Local Proud highlights the connection between shopping locally owned, independent businesses and retaining the community’s distinct character. Local Proud asks consumers to: choose personality over conformity; keep more money in the local economy; sustain and create more local jobs; and support environmental responsibility and sustainable practices.

The desire to support locally owned businesses is an emerging factor in people’s shopping choices, with more and more people seeking out locally owned shops and goods. Local farms and farmers’ markets are more popular than ever as people have discovered the health and ecological benefits of eating locally produced food. Also, travelers seek out destinations that offer them a sense of being someplace…not just anyplace.

“This program perfectly reflects the Economic Development Commission’s goal of strengthening businesses, fostering stronger communities, increasing job opportunities, and expanding

Milford ’s economic base while honoring our commitment to the history and character of Milford" says Genevieve Salvatore, the Economic Development Commission’s Chairwoman.

Local Proud will kick off the week of September 27th with a 13-week launch: “We’re So Much More….We’re Your Community.”

There are 100s of reasons to be Local Proud but the 100s of independent business owners and their employees is the single best reason for all of us to be Local Proud—our business is our community.

Local Proud was developed under the auspicious of Milford ’s Economic Development Commission. The committee members are, Susan Ashelford; Dayan Moore owner and co-founder of Green Goods 2 Go; Anna Rubino who is the graphic designer for Local Proud; and Susan Shaw, owner of Collected Stories Bookstores.

For more information on the program, contact Susan Shaw at 203-874-0115; visit our website, http://www.milfordlocalproud.com/ or email, localproud@milfordlocalproud.com

Textures, Textures, Textures

September, the end of Summer the beginning of Autumn – CELEBRATE! the change of seasons by taking an art stroll on Thursday, September 10th at Walnut Beach in Milford, Connecticut. It's the best time to start thinking about that special, unique gift for the upcoming Season(s) of Giving....Shop at Home for the Holidays!

Firehouse Gallery, 81 Naugatuck Avenue, is hosting an exhibit featuring “Textures.” At 6:00 pm join the artists and artisans and learn about their work. After the juried show and the chance to vote for the “Peoples Choice Award,” follow the melodious sound to Urban Antique Radio & Vintage Hi-Fi, 56 Naugatuck Avenue, to see a technological world of the past. You can’t miss them! Just look for the Hidden Mural on the side of the building. After you have listened to that sound of the past, visit Walnut Beach Café, 37 Naugatuck Avenue, and view the work of watercolorist, Kimberly Meuse. Her control of watercolors is mystifying! A Fine Affair may just have that gourmet kitchen gadget, one perhaps to give as a gift during this Season of Giving.

As you make your way onto Broadway, look up to the right over Lazy Lobster and see the Hidden Mural! To savor the taste of the sea you must stop by Lazy Lobster at 6 Broadway. Collected Stories, 16 Broadway, has that book you most likely couldn’t find elsewhere. If not, you will be inspired to buy a book that would be perfect to curl up with a glass of wine in front of a fireplace!

Look across the street to SoBoBo Art Gallery, 17 Broadway, where over 40 artists are now featured. Textures galore reverberate! Everything from altered books and acrylics, to beading and collages, to fabrics and faux leather, to metal and oils, to sculptures & terra-cottas. A place so intriguing, you are lured back again and again. Truly, a place where unique meets sublime! Speaking of unique you must visit Walnut Beach Creamery, 19 Broadway, to taste their homemade ice cream! A new flavor is MOO! - Strawberry ice cream with Oreo cookies! A cookies and cream with a twist!

Shop at Home for the Holidays!
Hope to see you there!!!

First Day of School - The Hallelujah! Holiday

School days. School days. Reading, Writing, Rule Days. . .

The Hallelujah! Holiday has begun! ...

(click on the link) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QFsTPx5UrbA.

Parents are giving new clothes, new school supplies to the children before they go to school. The parents' gift?. . .6 hours of freedom a day. The freedom might not be actual for some because of work, but there is definitely a worry free feeling of wondering where your child is or what he/she is doing.

Happy First Day of School!!!

Labor Day Hours

Labor Day Weekend Hours for SoBoBo will be as follows:


Thursday, September 3rd
OPEN 5:30pm - 9:30pm

Friday, September 4th
OPEN 5:30pm - 9:30pm

Saturday, September 5th
OPEN 12pm - 7pm

Sunday, September 6th
CLOSED

Monday, September 7th
(Labor Day)
No Appointments Scheduled

Wishing everyone a wonderful & safe Labor Day weekend!


"The Gap Theory"
Oils on Canvas
Charles Bell

A Season of Giving. . . Anticipation Begins. . .

August 22nd is just another day for most of us. It's Saturday. The weather is supposed to be gorgeous - spending a day at the beach, bringing a picnic basket, feeling the sand between our toes, enjoying the balmy breezes is perhaps what many of us will be doing because the end of summer is near. Some may be shopping at the Mall to get the tax break as we purchase new clothes for school. The movies become an intricate part of the weekend, especially if rain is to come by the end of the day. Rental movies might even be the way to go, you see more movies for the price of two people who go to the movies. Grocery shopping is another way we spend the day. Visiting friends and family at picnics, enjoying their company. . .

(Some of the following information was quoted from http://www.holidays.net/ramadan/story.htm)

. . .However, for some the celebration of the Fast of Ramadan will begin. Let us extend the long-arm-of-tolerance and begin to understand. . .Ramadan is celebrated in the ninth month of the Muslim calendar. It is a month long celebration of fasting and connecting with God. It is believed that the Holy Quran was sent from Heaven as "guidance unto men, a declaration of direction, and a means of "Salvation.""(http://www.holidays.net/ramadan/story.htm)


Muslims become more aware of their Faith than their daily lives like all of us live trying to blend traditions, practices of faith, and cultural beliefs into normalcy. The balancing at times can become overwhelming and taking the time to breathe to become more aware of ones Faith actually can be very enlightening. Ramadan is just that, it is a time of contemplation and worship. To achieve this, fasting is a very integral part of the celebration. Cleansing of body and mind.


"During the Fast of Ramadan strict restraints are practiced during the daily lives of Muslims. They are not allowed to eat or drink during the daylight hours. Smoking and sexual relations are also forbidden. At the end of the day the fast is broken with prayer and a meal called the iftar. In the evening following the iftar it is customary for Muslims to go out visiting family and friends. The fast is resumed the next morning.


The Holy Quran states that "One may eat and drink at any time during the night "until you can plainly distinguish a white thread from a black thread by the daylight: then keep the fast until night"" (http://www.holidays.net/ramadan/story.htm)


The good that is acquired through the fast can be destroyed by five things that are most offensive during the Fast of Ramadan, though they are considered offensive at all times. They are, basically, the Golden Rules as other religions follow the Ten Commandments. What the five things are can also be deemed as common courtesy. They are "the telling of a lie; slander; denouncing someone behind his back; a false oath; and greed or covetousness." (http://www.holidays.net/ramadan/story.htm)

As most of us attend a church or a synagogue, Muslims attend the Masjid or Mosque and spend several hours praying and studying the Holy Quran. In addition to the five daily prayers, during Ramadan, Muslims recite a special prayer called the Taraweeh prayer or Night Prayer. The length of this prayer is usually 2-3 times as long as the daily prayers. Some Muslims spend the entire night in prayer.

Anticipation. . .On the evening of the 27th day of the month, Muslims celebrate the Laylat-al-Qadr or the Night of Power. It is believed that on this night Muhammad first received the revelation of the Holy Quran and when God determines the course of the world for the following year.

Anticipation. . .The first day of the month of Shawwal is when the fast ends. It is celebrated for three days in a holiday called Id-al-Fitr or the Feast of Fast Breaking.


ANTICIPATION. . .Gifts are exchanged. Friends and family gather to pray in congregation and for large meals. In some cities fairs are held to celebrate the end of the Fast of Ramadan.


Now that there is an understanding of the celebration of Ramadan, can't you feel the anticipation from the beginning? The fasting may be compared to other holidays some of us celebrate, such as Easter and Passover. But the anticipation of knowing that during this time of fasting one will only attain a healthier body and mind. And of course the anticipation that at the end of the fasting a celebration with family and friends takes place!


It has culminated into A Season of Giving. . .

Enjoy! the weekend as Anticipation Begins. . . . .

(Some of the information for this piece was quoted from http://www.holidays.net/ramadan/story.htm)

Anticipation, It's Making You Wait...

Do you remember when you were a child how you wished you could be a grown up? You wanted to be an adult so you could do certain things? Or you wished for the weekend to come fast, or you wished for the last day of school to arrive quickly? And of course our parents always snuffed our anticipation for these wishes to come true by telling us, "Don't wish your life away!" "Stay a child as long as you can!"

Well, whether we want to believe it or not...the Holiday Season is fast approaching us! Don't wish it to be upon us so quickly so it can be done and over with for "it is the most wonderful time of the year" to make this Season one of ANTICIPATION for everyone, including yourself!

In every culture there is a Season of Giving.

Each person can sense the anticipation,

feeling the excitement in the air.

It is, perhaps, the only time age-old traditions are still followed

and new traditions are formed.

"Seven Principles of Kwanzaa"

Beliefs become restored. Senses become more in tune,

sharper than before. . .anticipation. . .

"Ramadan - EID - Celebration of Ending the Fast"


. . .The Biblical stories, legends, and myths all become real

Chanukah

for that one moment in time. . .anticipation. . .

. . .Magic comes alive. . .anticipation. . .

(A list of countries and the name they use for Santa Clause)

United States of America and Canada - Santa Claus; Brazil - Shengdan Laoren; Chile - Viejo Pascuero; Dutch - Sinter Klaas; England - Father Christmas; Europe - Saint Nicholas; Finland - Joulupukki; France - Pere Noel; Germany - Saint Nikolaus; Hawaii - Kanakaloka; Holland - De Kerstman; Hungary - Tel-apo/Mikulas/ Winter Grandfather; India - Santa Claus, Baba ; Italy - Babbo Natale; Japan - Hoteiosho; Lithuania - Kaledu Senelis; Morocco - Black Peter; Netherlands - Kerstman; Norway - Julenissen; Peru - Papa Noel; Poland - Swiety Mikolaj; Russia - Ded Moroz; Scandinavia - Julenisse; Spain - El Nino Jesus; Sweden - Tomten/Jultomten

. . .Everyone's heart opens to give and to receive kindness and love;

the want of sharing the abundance by extending

one's long-arm-of-tolerance across the boundaries

Celebration of Jesus' Birth

- accepting each other for whom they are

and what is believed in becomes real.

A brief, yet poignant, moment that does last a lifetime,

if and when it is allowed.

We can even consider the first day of school after summer vacation a holiday to celebrate! School will be starting in about three weeks, oh! the anticipation parents must be feeling right now about the freedom they will have once the kids are back at school. The best way to explain the anticipation parents feel is to watch it...(click on the link) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QFsTPx5UrbA We mustn't forget the anticipation the kids are feeling about seeing their friends, about playing football, basketball, and soccer, and about school activities.

"Trick Or Treat' is what we say as we begin to count the days until October 31st, Halloween - Oh! and the excitement of dressing up as something scary, something pretty, or someone famous! Heck with the plastic pumpkins to collect the treats! Use a large shopping bag, you can get more! Actually, the shopping bag will break. Better yet - use the re-usable shopping bags! They won't break and they will hold a lot!!

The anticipation as we wait for the door bells to ring - no one is there when we answer, the toilet paper draping over tree branches, and the dreaded eggs on your car or house (we pray "please, let them use silly string!)

. . .Anticipation begins to overwhelm us as we 'Give Thanks' on Thanksgiving Day. We make sure we use the same traditions handed down from generation to generation - "Don't forget Great Grandma's cornbread & sausage stuffing for the turkey!" "Mom's pumpkin pie will definitely be the perfect dessert!" Everyone is coming to our house this year, we need more chairs, we need a bigger table, we do have enough tableware...and anticipation continues to build. . .

. . .And the Holiday Rush for some of us begins! The Day After Thanksgiving, "Black Friday" for the retailers; for the average person, we need to get all the deals - must be at this store at 4:00 am to make sure to be in the store first to be one of the first 50 to get the iPod at a whopping discount. And it seems it's the beginning of the end...RUSH, RUSH, RUSH.

I wonder?!?!?. . .what it would be like if we, as is done in other countries, start celebrating the holiday season about two months before. Just imagine how ANTICIPATION would build when it is realized that the perfect gift could be found at one's leisure; that there is time to stop and enjoy friends and family; that attending all of the open houses you are invited to would actually happen!

Back to reality, RUSH - RUSH - RUSH, ANTICIPATION!

...Anticipation...Picture in your mind's eye how your children, nieces, nephews, cousins, parents, brothers & sisters, friends and that person you are a "secret friend" to at work - will react to that special unique yet sublime gift you took the time to choose for them. Think about what they want and that you fulfilled their wishes. Feel in the pit of your stomach the excitement as you envision each reaction. Can't you just feel the ANTICIPATION as each gift is opened? It's almost like going over a hill fast in your car and your stomach flip flops - a roller coaster ride.

Enjoy the happiness you brought to them as you practice the gift of giving!

Anticipation. . . A new year approaches. Celebration begins! . . . anticipation. . .as the ball drops at Time Square. Another year of milestones made - births, weddings, graduations as well as the sadder side - job loss, foreclosure, extreme budgeting to make sure survival wins - has passed. We look to the future with hope, happiness and harmony pushing fear aside.

A new beginning! A better tomorrow!

Change will happen, bringing us closer!

May all be blessed with the anticipation of knowing -

- the best is yet to come!

Anticipation...Is Making You Wait. . .It's keeping you guessing!

Many Blessings!